Now, I may be completely biased on the following but I need to vent before I implode. Firstly, I’m going to admit I love Taylor Swift. Haters will ask why and I’ll just say because she’s an amazing performer, a complete and utter sweetheart and though she doesn’t have the greatest track record in relationships, she’s not bitter about it. And now the rest:
Secondly, I admit, everyone deserves to have a point—everyone deserves to have their own opinion. Freedom of speech is very much welcomed except bullying and harassment isn’t. When Taylor Swift and Harry were ‘dating’ everyone hated on ‘Haylor’, everyone sent Taylor death mail and hate over their relationship spread over the Internet. I get it, yes, people are allowed to have their own opinion and say in the matter but have you morons (yes, this is me expressing my fury) ever heard the saying ‘If you’ve got nothing nice to say, don’t say it at all?’. It’s funny how there’s all these non-bullying campaigns yet you guys, ‘Directioners’ or Taylor Swift haters have the guts to hate on someone all because they’re dating someone you’ll never have a chance with?
It’s the stunning yet harsh truth. Harry Styles, One Direction—you’re nothing to them. Yes, you fans build them up, make them stronger. Yes they say they’d date you. But if you think of it clearly you’re simply a blip in their lives. Let’s use this analogy: If Harry Styles had a phone that shit itself you’d be one of the .01 of that pixel—a minuscule thing in his fast-paced life. As a group, you’re all strong but this hatred is a simple twelve year old fantasy. Get over it.
As for Taylor and Harry dating. Harry’s a big boy. He dated Taylor before but hooked up with another girl. Now they dated again…what do you expect in a celebrity world full of glitz and glamour? Have you ever stopped to think: Harry’s a big boy, he knows how to take care of himself, he knows what he’s walking into. He knows Taylor’s famous for her relationship track record. He knows they’re from different countries—the same world yet they’re two totally different people. My point in this half of my argument is: It takes two to tango.
Harry knew what he was walking into. Whether or not Taylor’s writing a song about him is none of your business. So what? He knew, he wasn’t completely naive about it. If he were then you’re all fools for thinking Harry’s some innocent chumbum. He’s not and neither is she. If he’s looking for some rebound girl now because Taylor Swift supposedly broke his heart and is now releasing a new song [I’m Alright] because of him, then who cares? You guys have no say in what neither of them do and hating on Taylor makes you a shit of a person. It disgusts me to be on the same earth plane as you.
Now, my last point is everyone teases Taylor for the way she dresses, acts, her tweets and the way people say she acts ‘innocent’. People judge her by her relationships and let me tell you what you as*holes: she’s human. She makes mistakes. Hell she can make a thousand mistakes—a thousand of the same mistakes and it doesn’t concern your snide ass. Look at yourself being judgmental on her relationship and compare it to yours. Okay, so I don’t know who exactly is reading this but you may either have a great relationship or you may not have a relationship at all. Your relationship may be one sided, one of you may be cheating or both are cheating. You might be getting bored or not at all. You might be looking for more and they are not or they are. Does it really matter? A relationship is a relationship. It’s a Trial Basis and marriage is the big leagues.
Taylor and Harry hooked up, they had sex and they had fun. It was a fling for them, they were ‘dating’. Dating = Courtship and if you’re smart you’d know that Courting means that you’re seeing each other. Whether or not they were dating openly or just with each other means nothing to you. Also, whether or not their relationship was based purely on sex means nothing to you because they’re adults who know what they’re doing and why they’re doing it. You’re a blip, remember that. Anyway, back to the point. You can’t judge Taylor just because you’re saying she’s a ‘Role Model’ because she’s a damn good one. She doesn’t do drugs nor does she wear too revealing clothing. She admit to a Magazine that she would never wear anything she was uncomfortable in or something ‘too revealing’ that she wouldn’t wear outside a set. She’s a good role model, leave it at that. You can’t judge her base on her relationships because everyone has them—people still like Kim freaking Kardashian even if she married a man for publicity, you people like girls like JWow from Jersey Shore who are practically whores. You can’t judge her base on her relationships when there are so much worse.
You only hate her because she was able to be with someone you wanted. Because she got something that you would never have—only in your dreams.
Another point is judging her because of her music. Yes, she uses Auto-Tune. Yes she’s inspired by relationships to write her songs. Why do you care? Because you think shes using them? Why the hell do you care? Are you the one winning all those awards? Making that money for a living? People said Taylor used Harry for publicity. More like the other way around. I’ve never heard the name ‘Harry Styles’ when it wasn’t squealing twelve year old’s till he started ‘dating’ Taylor Swift. Listen, cause this is f*cking hilarious > Taylor’s #1 on iTunes and One Direction are on #19. Sure they’re good performers but as individuals they were NOTHING. They were formed and if they weren’t then they would still just be dreamers. Taylor moved to Nashville, applied to countless Record labels and got turned down first hand but kept on getting up. At sixteen she was signed. SIX-F*CKING-TEEN. She is her own person. She rose to fame by herself. Remember what I said right now: One Direction were formed as a boyband. BOYBAND. Taylor is a SOLO ARTIST. As individuals the boys would be nothing. Taylor got up by herself and through the hate she’s still growing strong.
Oh and if you dislike her music then get over it. Don’t listen or put some plugs on—no one’s forcing you to listen.
Lastly, Haylor. Again I will pull up the fact that Harry Styles knew what he was going into when he dated Taylor Swift. Whether or not he’s heartbroken he knew, he was told and they dated each other before. Whether or not it was a publicity act does not matter TO YOU because you are a mere blip. If they were happy with their ‘get up’ and ended up breaking it off because of their fast-paced lives doesn’t matter to you. Whether or not she used him or him her it doesn’t matter to you—why? No, I’m not going to say ‘because you’re a blip’. I’m going to say: because there are so many more deceitful people in the world.
Taylor Swift is a good person. Cut across your hatred for the fact that she dated one/5 of a boy band you like and you’ll see that. You may think she uses men for her music but it’s not any of your concern. They know what she’s famous for, they’re old enough to understand. Compare her, where she is and check out her achievements. Compare it to yours. It may be jealousy you have to the reason why you hate her so much, or the fact that you’re annoyed of her music or the fact that you’re loyal to your petty boy-band. But know this—Taylor got where she is ON HER OWN. She worked hard, wasn’t some spoilt brat and didn’t have things handed to her on a silver platter. She worked hard, just like we will be or are.
You think she has it easy? Try waking up knowing that all these girls you don’t even met bitch about you and say shit about you just because you dated a guy and had fun with him whilst it lasted. Try facing the media when they try to spread rumors about you, good or otherwise and follow you around—having no private life and feeling the need to justify your every move. Try waking up knowing your family see how depressed you get when you get more hatred and knowing people want you dead.
She doesn’t have it any easier than the rest of us.
She is her own person. She is a good person. Get over yourself, build a bridge or do whatever. You’re allowed to have the freedom of speech but it doesn’t mean you should use it to throw hatred at someone who barely deserves it. Look at yourself in the mirror now, think of every single thing you’ve done. From cheating on a test or cheating on your boyfriend/girlfriend. From lying to your parents about last Saturday night or lying to your mom about still being a virgin. From the shitty results you got on your exams and what you do for a living.
You’re not any better than she is and you’re making it worst but hating on her.
Build a bridge and get over it.
Just because I love Taylor and admire her it doesn’t mean that I’m completely biased. This goes for anyone you hate on. You might be all: Say No to Bullying but you’re the bully in this equation. I only hope you’ve got enough humanity in you to stop hating.
I’d say it was nice of you to read this but really it’s not because I shouldn’t have wanted to do this.
P.S. I’m not sorry If I offended you because trust me, you need to hear it. Before it’s too late.
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